Rewilding the Feminine Psyche. Unearthing Your Untamed Power.
DEPTH WORK FOR THOSE DONE WITH SURVIVAL AND READY FOR THE TRUTH BENEATH IT. 
This is the work of becoming real
You’re here because something in your life no longer fits.
You're done with the old ways of coping and holding yourself together.
You arrive at Hag & Bone when:
Therapy has helped you, but not changed your deeper patterns
You don’t feel at home in your own skin
You repeat the same relational cycles
You can’t keep performing the “capable” self you built to survive
You’re exhausted by people-pleasing and self-erasure
You feel the ache of a life unlived, rising beneath the surface
Here, nothing is pathologised.
Nothing is rushed.
Nothing is treated as a problem to fix.
This is the work of becoming real -
the slow, necessary return to the woman you were before the world
taught you to harden, shrink, or disappear.
STEP INTO A LIFE GOVERNED BY AGENCY, CLARITY AND SELF POSSESSION
My work is for women whose lives are beginning to split open.
Not in crisis -
in clarity.
You may still look functional from the outside,
but inside you can feel the fracture:
the part of you that performs
and the part of you that’s suffocating under the performancethe part of you that knows what’s true
and the part of you still shaped by old loyaltiesthe part of you that longs for depth
and the part afraid that depth will cost you everything
At Hag & Bone, we work with that split.
Not with worksheets, techniques, or performative healing -
but with depth.
With truth.
With the kind of inner work that changes the architecture of a life.
This is where women stop shrinking, stop apologising, stop
disappearing -
and begin returning to themselves.
THE WQRK
For more than two decades, I’ve guided women through the thresholds where traditional therapy no longer reaches - the places where identity fractures, patterns repeat, and the old ways of coping collapse.
My approach blends clinical depth with mythic clarity. I work at the seam between psychology and lived experience - where the abandoned self surfaces, the inner patriarch is named, and a woman begins to inhabit the life she was never permitted to claim.
This is where women come when insight is not enough. When they are ready to give up performance, meet the truth of their patterns, and build a self that can hold the full weight of their interior life.
This is the work that is uncompromising, embodied, and oriented toward a woman’s real becoming. For women who are ready to move beyond coping and into a life governed by agency, clarity, and self- possession.
IN PERSON & ONLINE WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
DEEP DIVE JOURNEYS
1:1 and group pathways.
Three to ten months.
For women ready to stop circling their patterns and finally change them.
Depth, clarity, agency.
GROUP RETREATS
Immersive weekends for women who need space to stop performing.
Rest, shedding, realignment.
Ritual, story, belonging, depth.
DEPTH WORK
A path for women who feel stuck in the same wounds.
Pattern clarity. Real change.
A deeper becoming.
MENTORSHIP
For therapists, guides, and practitioners who know they’re meant to
work deeper
Refinement. Integrity.
A truer voice in your work.
CLIENT REFLECTIONS“Lavinia is the real deal, she’s wise, skilled, dedicated, grounded & her insight is jaw-dropping.”
- RUTH, HYPNOTHERAPIST & PSYCHOTHERAPIST
ABOUT LAVINIA WILDE
PSYCHOTHERAPIST | THERAPUTIC SHAMAN | ECO THERAPIST |
WRITER | SPEAKER | MA | BA (HONS) | PG DIP | PG CERTLavinia Wilde is a Feminist Archetypal Jungian Psychotherapist, eco-therapist, and guide in visionary dreamwork and ritual practice.
For over two decades, she has accompanied women through descent and return - walking with them into the mythopoetic landscapes of shame, silence, and grief, and back into voice, instinct, and authority.
Her work stands at the meeting point of depth psychology, myth, and ceremony. It offers spaces where nothing must be performed, and where grief and longing are not pathologies but compasses.
Raised during the Troubles in Northern Ireland, Lavinia’s practice is grounded in lived initiation. It is not abstract or theoretical.
It is earned.